yeah, I agree that a straight male would find it very difficult to watch, let alone get off by it. Maybe watching a blow job cause that'll be about the same despite who is doing it, but watching a guy take it up the. I couldn't be more straight and I have never visited a lesbian dating site. Which I know how it feels obviously therefore it turns me on. Speaking as a woman who has watched lesbian porn before, I enjoy it because of the oral. Straight women watching lesbian porn is a far cry from men watching gay porn. I'm going to have to agree with the anonymous poster.
I know what the answer is here, but I more than anything want to know how to help him through this, so it isn't so damaging(for both of us)5 1/2 years is a long time when you're in your 20's.
When I bring it up he cold shoulders me for a while, and acts like he is really sad, or on the brink of a major reality check. We have talked about it before, and all he says is that people like different things, and he is grown, so if he wants to look at gay porn he will. He is at a point in life where he is not ambitious, and at a standstill as far as his career, and life. The sex is really great, but we only have it 2 times a month on average. He has always been like that, so no change there. He is kind, and we get along great, but some days moody and quite. He is here 7 days a week, and we spend everyday together. He never leaves the house, and does consulting from home. Then there is craigslist, which has unbelievable opportunities. I actually created a profile with no pic, and searched for him on the site, and he was not on there, at least not registered in our area. but he says the gay dating site was for the amateur videos. I have asked him and I'm sure he spit out yet another lie. Reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): What did you do about it? Can a straight man really look at gay porn and not be gay?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! I have been reading other posts, which indicate that this happens in other relationships as well, and I am wondering if someone can give me their experience, and outcome. I really love this man, but more so he is my best friend. He is a very masculine black male, with not one gay tendency.He said he looks at all types of porn, but that he looks at gay porn recently because it is something new, and taboo. He then told me that he did look at gay porn, but that it was just something that he looked at, and that he has n interest in actually being with a man. He used to say that it was all pop ups from the other porn sites that he visited, but one day I caught his search history before he could clear it. He has always watched a lot of porn, but about 1 year ago I noticed gay porn and gay dating sites in his search history. I found out that my boyfriend of 5 years watches gay porn on a regular basis. Sitemapīoyfriend watches gay porn on a regular basis! Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!